Leviticus 18:22
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You must not lie with a man as with a woman; that is an abomination.
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What it means
Read the sentence slowly, the way it's actually built. "You must not lie with a man as with a woman" — the Hebrew doesn't say "as with a woman would lie with a man," it uses the phrase "lyings of a woman" (mishkeve ishah), meaning: don't put a man in the place, in the bed, that a woman occupies Strong's. It's plain, blunt, and grammatically simple — no hidden qualifiers about temple prostitution or exploitation or age. Then comes the verdict: to'ebah — something that turns the stomach, disgusting not in a squeamish sense but in a moral, God-defined sense Tyndale.
This verse sits in the middle of a long list — Leviticus 18 runs through incest, adultery, child sacrifice to Molech, bestiality, and this — all under one heading: "do not do as they do in Egypt where you lived, or as they do in Canaan where I'm bringing you" (18:3). It's not a random vice list; it's God drawing a fence around Israel's whole sexual and family life, in contrast to the nations around them Jamieson-Fausset-Brown. The parallel verse, Leviticus 20:13, repeats the same act but adds the death penalty under Israel's civil law — which itself raises the question every reader has to sit with: is this a moral law that still binds, a civil law tied to Israel's nationhood that ended with the old covenant, or a ceremonial purity law like not eating shellfish? Christians disagree sharply here. Most historic Christian teaching — Catholic, Orthodox, and the majority of Protestant traditions — reads this as moral law, restated and never revoked in the New Testament (see 1 Corinthians 6:9, 1 Timothy 1:10). A minority of modern interpreters argue it targeted only exploitative or idol-worship contexts (like the shrine prostitution of 1 Kings 14:24) and doesn't address all same-sex relationships. That disagreement is real, and you should know it exists — but the text itself, read plainly, doesn't restrict the prohibition to a cultic setting; it's stated as a category, full stop John Gill.
Historical Context
Leviticus is the instruction manual God gives Israel at Mount Sinai, not long after he pulled them out of slavery in Egypt — somewhere around 1440 or 1250 BC depending on how you date the Exodus, but either way, this is a brand-new nation, barely a few months old, camped in the desert, being told how to live differently than every nation they've ever known.
Chapter 18 spells that out directly: "You must not do as they do in the land of Egypt, where you used to live, and you must not do as they do in the land of Canaan, where I am bringing you" (18:3). Egypt was the world they were leaving; Canaan was the world they were entering. Both had well-documented religious and sexual practices that Israel is told to reject wholesale — cult prostitution attached to fertility worship, ritual sex with temple servants (male and female, see Deuteronomy 23:18 and 1 Kings 14:24), child sacrifice to the god Molech, and a general blending of sex with worship that Israel's God flatly forbids. This is a culture where the gods themselves were imagined having sex with each other and with humans, and where the local shrines sometimes employed sacred prostitutes as part of "worship." Against that whole world, God says: your bodies, your beds, your families are not going to work like theirs.
By the time you get to chapter 20, the same list of prohibited acts gets civil penalties attached — because this isn't just personal ethics, it's meant to be the law of a nation living in a specific land under a specific covenant with God. The writer (traditionally Moses, and the text presents itself that way) is handing Israel a whole vision of what a holy nation's intimate life looks like, set against the fertility religions of Egypt and Canaan on every side Jamieson-Fausset-Brown.
Original Language
The heart of the sentence is the verb שָׁכַב (shakab, H7901) — "to lie down," used all through the Old Testament for sleep, death, and sex, and the noun built from it, מִשְׁכָּב (mishkab, H4904), "a bed," which by itself came to mean sexual intercourse Strong's. The actual Hebrew phrase behind "as with a woman" is literally mishkeve ishah — "the lyings of a woman" — a set phrase, and it's the exact same phrase used in 18:22 as in 20:13. That matters, because it shows this isn't loose or vague language; it's a fixed legal idiom pointing to one specific kind of act.
זָכָר (zakar, H2145) is the word for "male" — not "husband," not "young man," just male, tied to a root meaning "remembered," since maleness was seen as the sex worth noting in genealogies Strong's. אִשָּׁה (ishah, H802) is simply "woman." Put together, the sentence is doing something almost mathematically plain: don't treat a male the way a female is treated in bed.
Then the verdict word: תּוֹעֵבַה (to'ebah, H8441) — "something disgusting," often translated "abomination," used elsewhere in the Old Testament for idol worship and things "abhorrent" to God specifically Strong's. It's a strong word, but it's worth knowing it's not the harshest word in Hebrew's vocabulary for sin — it's used for things like dishonest business scales ( Proverbs 11:1) as well as for this. That doesn't soften the verse, but it does tell you to'ebah is about violating God's created order, not necessarily the single worst sin a person could commit Tyndale.
How it points to Christ
This verse doesn't predict Jesus or picture him the way a sacrifice or a king does — so don't force that. But it does sit inside a larger story that Jesus steps into and completes: God building, from Genesis on, a picture of what human intimacy is for. Genesis 2 shows a man and woman becoming "one flesh" — a real union, image-bearers reflecting something of God's own faithfulness and fruitfulness Tyndale. Leviticus 18 is God fencing off that picture, protecting it from every direction — incest, adultery, this — because Israel is supposed to model something true to a watching world.
Jesus, when asked point-blank about marriage and sex in Matthew 19:4–6, doesn't go looking for new categories. He goes straight back to Genesis: "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning made them male and female... For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife." He reaffirms the same created order Leviticus is defending, not by adding new rules but by pointing to the original design. And Paul, writing to real people in Corinth — a city as sexually chaotic as anything in ancient Canaan — lists this sin alongside greed, drunkenness, and slander in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, and then says the most important line in the whole passage: "And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ." That's the real hinge. Leviticus draws the line; Jesus is the one who steps over every line any of us have crossed and offers to wash us clean on the other side of it — not by pretending the line wasn't real, but by absorbing what it costs to break it. The verse names the wound. The gospel is where the healing actually happens.
Application
You probably didn't come to this verse neutral. Almost nobody does anymore — it's one of the most fought-over sentences in the whole Bible, and you've likely already picked a side in the wider argument before you even opened this page. So let me ask you to do something harder than picking a side: sit with what the text actually says before you decide what to do with it.
Here's the cost this verse asks of you, whoever you are. If you're someone who experiences same-sex attraction, this verse is not gentle, and I won't pretend it is — but neither is it isolating you as uniquely broken. It sits in a chapter that also condemns adultery, a sin plenty of "normal" marriages are quietly full of. None of us gets to read Leviticus 18 and walk away feeling superior. If you're someone who's never struggled with this at all, the cost is different: it's the temptation to treat this verse as ammunition instead of as part of God's larger, costly call on everyone's body — including yours, including your eyes, your marriage bed, your desires you'd never confess out loud.
The real question this verse puts to you isn't "who's in and who's out." It's whether you trust that the God who made bodies, made sex, and made marriage actually knows better than you do what they're for — even when his answer costs you something you want. That's the same question every honest reader of Scripture eventually faces, in a hundred different areas of life. Bring your actual self — your actual desires, your actual history — to God today, not a cleaned-up version. He already knows. He's not asking you to perform. He's asking you to trust him with the truth.
Prayer Points
- Lord, thank you that you made bodies and desire and marriage — help me trust that your design is good even where it costs me.
- I confess that I've either judged others harshly or excused myself easily on matters of sexual sin — search me and show me which one I'm doing.
- For anyone I know wrestling with same-sex attraction, give me a heart that reflects your holiness and your welcome at the same time, not one or the other.
- Wash me, Lord, the way you washed the Corinthians — not by pretending my sin wasn't real, but by actually cleaning it.
- Give me the humility to read hard verses honestly instead of bending them to fit what I already wanted to believe.
Reflections
- Did you come to this verse already knowing what you wanted it to say? What would it cost you if it doesn't say that?
- Where in your own sexual or relational life have you quietly decided you know better than God's design — regardless of which sin it is?
- If 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 is right that "such were some of you" and yet they were washed — do you actually believe that's true for the parts of your own life you're most ashamed of?
- Do you find it easier to feel disgust toward other people's sin than grief over your own?
- How would you talk about this verse with someone you love who disagrees with you — with truth, or only with winning?