Proverbs 29:3
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A man who loves wisdom brings joy to his father, but a companion of prostitutes squanders his wealth.
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This political proverb is now followed by one of general ethics: 3 A man who loveth wisdom delighteth his father; And he who keepeth company with harlots spendeth his substance. Line first is a variation of Pro 10:1. אישׁ־אהב has, according to rule, the Metheg, cf. 9a. אישׁ is man, without distinction of age, from childhood (Gen 4:1) up to ripe old age (Isa 66:13); love and dutiful relation towards father and mother never cease. Line second reminds of Pro 28:7 (cf. Pro 13:20).
Open source ↗Both the parts of this verse repeat what has been often said, but, on comparing them together, the sense of them will be enlarged from each other. 1. Be it observed, to the honour of a virtuous young man, that he loves wisdom, he is a philosopher (for that signifies a lover of wisdom), for religion is the best philosophy; he avoids bad company, and especially the company of lewd women. Hereby he rejoices his parents, and has the satisfaction of being a comfort to them, and increases his estate, and is likely to live comfortably. 2. Be it observed, to the reproach of a vicious young man, that he hates wisdom; he keeps company with scandalous women, who will be his ruin, both in soul and body; he grieves his parents, and, like the prodigal son, devours their living with harlots. Nothing will beggar men sooner than the lusts of uncleanness; and the best preservative from those ruinous lusts is wisdom.
Open source ↗29:3 A man’s wisdom affects his parents (10:1; 15:20; 17:21). • Prostitutes cost money and a man’s wealth is rapidly wasted on them.
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Be wise, my son, and bring joy to my heart, so that I can answer him who taunts me.
But when this son of yours returns from squandering your wealth with prostitutes, you kill the fattened calf for him!’
The proverbs of Solomon: A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish son grief to his mother.
A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish man despises his mother.
A discerning son keeps the law, but a companion of gluttons disgraces his father.
For the levy of the prostitute is poverty, and the adulteress preys upon your very life.
After a few days, the younger son got everything together and journeyed to a distant country, where he squandered his wealth in wild living.
He who loves pleasure will become poor; the one who loves wine and oil will never be rich.
The one who works his land will have plenty of food, but whoever chases fantasies will have his fill of poverty.
Precious treasures and oil are in the dwelling of the wise, but a foolish man consumes them.